Helping your child handle a bully

If your child is
being bullied, get involved. Children nee to know you’re taking the
situation seriously and will act to help stop the bullying.

Follow this advice.

· Listen in a loving manner. Don’t let your child see that you’re upset. This can make the situation worse.

· Tell your child that he or she isn’t to blame.

· Support your child’s feelings. Instead of saying, “Everything will be
fine,” say, “I understand you’re having a tough time. Let’s work
together to deal with this.”

· Talk to your child’s teacher and principal, and brainstorm solutions.

If another child physically assaults your child or is seriously
threatening your child with physical injury take action immediately.
Talk with school officials to help determine whether the police need to
be involved.

What kids can do.

· Don’t react to the bullying. Bullies may give up if they don’t get the attention they crave.

· Don’t hit, kick or push back.

· Practice what you’ll say to a bully, such as, “I want you to stop now.”

· Show confidence by walking away with your head held high.

· Stick with a friend while on the bus, at lunch or in between classes.

· Talk to an adult. Parents, teachers, principals and guidance counselors can help you stop the bullying.

- Mayo Clinic -

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